A (somewhat) honest look at what it's like to be a single, Christian woman in her mid 30s in Sydney who wants to remain true to the life that God has planned for her but doesn't want to let go of her dream of being in a relationship again and eventually being a wife and mother

Monday, 28 February 2011

-289 Migraine Monday

I had such a big day at work today and worked through until about 6pm. It was The Non Bachelor's birthday so we talked on the phone for about an hour and not surprisingly he told me that he's met someone. Why is it so easy for guys? And why does it seem easy for them to meet women who are open to Christianity and going to Church to meet women outside of Church ?  I think, no I know, I need to get out more. ;)

Bachelor #4 made mention in an email that out emails were getting long so I suggested we Skpe. Still no word from him although he has commented on my Facebook status's and stuff so it's not like he hasn't been on. Not analyzing - I'm just not making excuses for him. I don't think he's interested in getting to know me beyond emailing I guess. Not giving up on him but I'm considering taking back his Bachelor status ;)

Can feel a migraine on it's way but I'm not going to accept it and succumb to it's sleepy pull. Normal bedtime for me tonight. 


  1. I don't think it's easier for guys. But I do think there are less pre-conceptions outside of church. Like, if you're talking to another single in church, the rumors are going to abound that you are dating (or about to), whereas outside of church it is less pressure to pair up.

    Hope the migraine didn't eventuate.

  2. Are you doing Internet dating? Good luck!

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  3. Hey, girl, I hope everything's okay... and that you're having an awesome start to your weekend!


  4. @Michelle - I guess it just seems easier for guys as they can be attracted to a girl based on looks first and then do the approaching ( which is hard in itself I know ). And I guess I'm talking about two Christian guys I know in particular who are actively looking for a girlfriend/potential wife but are looking outside the Church environment and have both seemed to have quickly found women who are open to Christianity and God in clubs and bars. If I went to a club or a bar there is very little chance I would be approached by a Christian guy. It just does my head in slightly - lol.

  5. @Shanimal - Yep, internet 'dating' but I think I need to do a little post on what I see as perhaps the Aussie Christian version of dating vs other internet dating. We don't date but we do go on dates. It's confusing. ;)

    Have to check out that award :D

  6. @Ms. Blasé (yay! I did it! ) Thanks for checking on me. Work busy. Pre migraines all week but no major migraine, just a lot of lying down after work and staring at the tv contemplating going for a walk. ;)

    Doing a bit of catching up now :)



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